Robert Jordan’s father committed suicide with a gun belonging to his father, Jordan’s grandfather, a Civil War veteran. It is clear that Jordan is traumatized by his father’s death—since it is mentioned that he threw the gun into a lake shortly thereafter, perhaps attempting to rid himself of the memory of the suicide—though he does not discuss his grief at length. Jordan’s history with his father casts new light on his fear of death and his ambivalence toward violent acts. Death, it seems, has always been a part of his life, albeit one he is not able to address productively until the end of the novel. Jordan believes his father was a cobarde, a coward, in part because of his suicide, and in part because he let “that woman,” perhaps Jordan’s mother, “bully him.” Clearly, Jordan’s family history has shaped him as a man, because he is reluctant to let any woman control him: Maria, whom he falls for, is subservient to him.