A Monster Calls

by

Patrick Ness

Conor’s Mother Character Analysis

Though it is only explicitly stated that Conor’s mother is sick, details that Ness includes heavily implies that she has cancer: Conor’s mother has lost her hair and wears a scarf, goes through rounds of treatments, and is often exhausted and nauseous. As Conor’s mother’s condition deteriorates over the course of the book, she feels increasingly guilty about the responsibility that Conor has been forced to take on in caring for her. This leads her to ask his grandmother (her mother) to visit and help her and Conor, despite the fact that Conor doesn’t like his grandmother very much. When Conor’s mother’s treatments stop working, she tries to tell Conor that she believes her last option, the one made from yew trees, will work. When she reveals to him later that this treatment is also failing, he becomes angry with his mother for lying to him. She says, however, that his belief that she would get better is what had been keeping her alive for so long—demonstrating how Conor’s mother had also been incentivizing his denial. Ultimately, when the monster helps Conor accept the truth, he returns to his mother and is finally able to tell her that he doesn’t want her to die, resolving the anger between them. In the final pages of the book, it is implied that Conor’s mother passes away very shortly after its conclusion.

Conor’s Mother Quotes in A Monster Calls

The A Monster Calls quotes below are all either spoken by Conor’s Mother or refer to Conor’s Mother. For each quote, you can also see the other characters and themes related to it (each theme is indicated by its own dot and icon, like this one:
Death, Denial, and Acceptance Theme Icon
).
A Monster Calls Quotes

He’d told no one about the nightmare. Not his mum, obviously, but no one else either, not his dad in their fortnightly (or so) phone call, definitely not his grandma, and no one at school. Absolutely not.

Related Characters: Conor O’Malley, The Monster, Conor’s Mother, Conor’s Grandmother, Conor’s Father
Page Number: 1
Explanation and Analysis:
Breakfast Quotes

But she wasn’t in the kitchen. Which meant she was probably still up in her bed. Which meant Conor would have to make his own breakfast, something he’d grown used to doing. Fine. Good, in fact, especially this morning.

Related Characters: Conor O’Malley, The Monster, Conor’s Mother
Page Number: 10
Explanation and Analysis:

“I’m going to be late,” Conor said, eyeing the clock.

“Okay, sweetheart,” she said, teetering over to kiss him on the forehead. “You’re a good boy,” she said again. “I wish you didn’t have to be quite so good.”

Related Characters: Conor O’Malley (speaker), Conor’s Mother (speaker), Conor’s Grandmother
Page Number: 17
Explanation and Analysis:
Three Stories Quotes

You know that is not true, the monster said. You know that your truth, the one that you hide, Conor O’Malley, is the thing you are most afraid of.

Related Characters: The Monster (speaker), Conor O’Malley, Conor’s Mother
Page Number: 36
Explanation and Analysis:
The Rest of the First Tale Quotes

There is not always a good guy. Nor is there always a bad one. Most people are somewhere in between.

Conor shook his head. “That’s a terrible story. And a cheat.”

It is a true story, the monster said. Many things that are true feel like a cheat. Kingdoms get the princes they deserve, farmers’ daughters die for no reason, and sometimes witches merit saving.

Related Characters: Conor O’Malley (speaker), The Monster (speaker), Conor’s Mother, Conor’s Grandmother, The Evil Queen, The Young Prince, The Farmer’s Daughter
Page Number: 64
Explanation and Analysis:
Understanding Quotes

Those friends told a few more, who told a few more, and before the day was half through, it was like a circle had opened around him, a dead area with Conor at the center, surrounded by land mines that everyone was afraid to walk through.

Related Characters: Conor O’Malley, Conor’s Mother, Lily Andrews
Page Number: 68
Explanation and Analysis:

And for a moment, Conor was entirely alone.

He knew right then he could probably stay out there all day and no one would punish him for it.

Which somehow made him feel even worse.

Related Characters: Conor O’Malley, Conor’s Mother, Harry, Miss Kwan, Anton, Sully
Page Number: 73
Explanation and Analysis:
Champ Quotes

“We barely have room for the three of us, Con. Your grandma has a lot more money and space than we do. Plus, you’re in school here, your friends are here, your whole life is here. It would be unfair to just take you out of all that.”

“Unfair to who?” Conor asked.

His father sighed. “This is what I meant,” he said. “This is what I meant when I said you were going to have to be brave.”

Related Characters: Conor O’Malley (speaker), Conor’s Father (speaker), Conor’s Mother, Conor’s Grandmother
Page Number: 88
Explanation and Analysis:
The Second Tale Quotes

The yew tree is the most important of all the healing trees, it said. It lives for thousands of years. Its berries, its bark, its leaves, its sap, its pulp, its wood, they all thrum and burn and twist with life. It can cure almost any ailment man suffers from, mixed and treated by the right apothecary.

Related Characters: The Monster (speaker), Conor O’Malley, Conor’s Mother, The Parson, The Apothecary
Related Symbols: The Yew Tree
Page Number: 105
Explanation and Analysis:
Invisible Quotes

His classmates kept their distance from him, too, like he was giving off a bad smell. He tried to remember if he’d talked to any of them since he’d arrived this morning. He didn’t think he had. Which meant he hadn’t actually spoken to anyone since his father that morning.

How could something like that happen?

But, finally, here was Harry. And that, at least, felt normal.

Related Characters: Conor O’Malley, Conor’s Mother, Conor’s Grandmother, Conor’s Father, Harry, Anton, Sully
Page Number: 125
Explanation and Analysis:
Could It Be? Quotes

“Son,” his father said, leaning forward. “Stories don’t always have happy endings.”

This stopped him. Because they didn’t, did they? That’s one thing the monster had definitely taught him. Stories were wild, wild animals and went off in directions you couldn’t expect.

Related Characters: Conor’s Father (speaker), Conor O’Malley, The Monster, Conor’s Mother
Related Symbols: The Yew Tree
Page Number: 134
Explanation and Analysis:
The Third Tale Quotes

Harry leaned forward, his eyes flashing. “I see nothing,” he said. Without turning around, Conor asked the monster a question. “What did you do to help the invisible man?”

And he felt the monster’s voice again, like it was in his own head.

I made them see, it said.

Conor clenched his fists even tighter.

Then the monster leapt forward to make Harry see.

Related Characters: Conor O’Malley (speaker), The Monster (speaker), Harry (speaker), Conor’s Mother, Lily Andrews
Page Number: 152
Explanation and Analysis:
Punishment Quotes

He was going to be punished. It was finally going to happen. Everything was going to make sense again. She was going to expel him.

Punishment was coming.

Related Characters: Conor O’Malley, Conor’s Mother, Harry, Miss Kwan
Page Number: 157
Explanation and Analysis:
A Note Quotes

I’m sorry for telling everyone about your mum, read the first line.

I miss being your friend, read the second.

Are you okay? read the third.

I see you, read the fourth, with the I underlined about a hundred times.

Related Characters: Lily Andrews (speaker), Conor O’Malley, Conor’s Mother, Harry
Page Number: 162
Explanation and Analysis:
Life After Death Quotes

“I’ve known forever she wasn’t going to make it, almost from the beginning. She said she was getting better because that’s what I wanted to hear. And I believed her. Except I didn’t.”

No, the monster said.

Conor swallowed, still struggling. “And I started to think how much I wanted it to be over. How much I just wanted to stop having to think about it. How I couldn’t stand the waiting anymore. I couldn’t stand how alone it made me feel.”

Related Characters: Conor O’Malley (speaker), The Monster (speaker), Conor’s Mother
Page Number: 171
Explanation and Analysis:

He faintly felt the huge hands of the monster pick him up, forming a little nest to hold him. He was only vaguely aware of the leaves and branches twisting around him, softening and widening to let him lie back.

Related Characters: Conor O’Malley, The Monster, Conor’s Mother
Page Number: 190
Explanation and Analysis:

You were merely wishing for the end of pain, the monster said. Your own pain. An end to how it isolated you. It is the most human wish of all.

“I didn’t mean it,” Conor said.

You did, the monster said, but you also did not.

Conor sniffed and looked up to its face, which was as big as a wall in front of him. “How can both be true?”

Because humans are complicated beasts, the monster said. How can a queen be both a good witch and a bad witch? How can a prince be a murderer and a saviour?

Related Characters: Conor O’Malley (speaker), The Monster (speaker), Conor’s Mother, The Evil Queen, The Parson, The Young Prince, The Apothecary
Page Number: 191
Explanation and Analysis:
The Truth Quotes

And he also knew he was going to get through it.

It would be terrible. It would be beyond terrible.

But he’d survive.

And it was for this that the monster came. It must have been.

Conor had needed it, and his need had somehow called it. And it had come walking. Just for this moment.

Related Characters: Conor O’Malley, The Monster, Conor’s Mother
Page Number: 204
Explanation and Analysis:

“You’ll stay?” Conor whispered to the monster, barely able to speak. “You’ll stay until. . .”

I will stay, the monster said, its hands still on Conor’s shoulders. Now all you have to do is speak the truth.

And so Conor did.

He took in a breath.

And, at last, he spoke the final and total truth.

“I don’t want you to go,” he said, the tears dropping from his eyes, slowly at first, then spilling like a river.

Related Characters: Conor O’Malley (speaker), The Monster (speaker), Conor’s Mother
Related Symbols: The Yew Tree
Page Number: 204
Explanation and Analysis:
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Conor’s Mother Quotes in A Monster Calls

The A Monster Calls quotes below are all either spoken by Conor’s Mother or refer to Conor’s Mother. For each quote, you can also see the other characters and themes related to it (each theme is indicated by its own dot and icon, like this one:
Death, Denial, and Acceptance Theme Icon
).
A Monster Calls Quotes

He’d told no one about the nightmare. Not his mum, obviously, but no one else either, not his dad in their fortnightly (or so) phone call, definitely not his grandma, and no one at school. Absolutely not.

Related Characters: Conor O’Malley, The Monster, Conor’s Mother, Conor’s Grandmother, Conor’s Father
Page Number: 1
Explanation and Analysis:
Breakfast Quotes

But she wasn’t in the kitchen. Which meant she was probably still up in her bed. Which meant Conor would have to make his own breakfast, something he’d grown used to doing. Fine. Good, in fact, especially this morning.

Related Characters: Conor O’Malley, The Monster, Conor’s Mother
Page Number: 10
Explanation and Analysis:

“I’m going to be late,” Conor said, eyeing the clock.

“Okay, sweetheart,” she said, teetering over to kiss him on the forehead. “You’re a good boy,” she said again. “I wish you didn’t have to be quite so good.”

Related Characters: Conor O’Malley (speaker), Conor’s Mother (speaker), Conor’s Grandmother
Page Number: 17
Explanation and Analysis:
Three Stories Quotes

You know that is not true, the monster said. You know that your truth, the one that you hide, Conor O’Malley, is the thing you are most afraid of.

Related Characters: The Monster (speaker), Conor O’Malley, Conor’s Mother
Page Number: 36
Explanation and Analysis:
The Rest of the First Tale Quotes

There is not always a good guy. Nor is there always a bad one. Most people are somewhere in between.

Conor shook his head. “That’s a terrible story. And a cheat.”

It is a true story, the monster said. Many things that are true feel like a cheat. Kingdoms get the princes they deserve, farmers’ daughters die for no reason, and sometimes witches merit saving.

Related Characters: Conor O’Malley (speaker), The Monster (speaker), Conor’s Mother, Conor’s Grandmother, The Evil Queen, The Young Prince, The Farmer’s Daughter
Page Number: 64
Explanation and Analysis:
Understanding Quotes

Those friends told a few more, who told a few more, and before the day was half through, it was like a circle had opened around him, a dead area with Conor at the center, surrounded by land mines that everyone was afraid to walk through.

Related Characters: Conor O’Malley, Conor’s Mother, Lily Andrews
Page Number: 68
Explanation and Analysis:

And for a moment, Conor was entirely alone.

He knew right then he could probably stay out there all day and no one would punish him for it.

Which somehow made him feel even worse.

Related Characters: Conor O’Malley, Conor’s Mother, Harry, Miss Kwan, Anton, Sully
Page Number: 73
Explanation and Analysis:
Champ Quotes

“We barely have room for the three of us, Con. Your grandma has a lot more money and space than we do. Plus, you’re in school here, your friends are here, your whole life is here. It would be unfair to just take you out of all that.”

“Unfair to who?” Conor asked.

His father sighed. “This is what I meant,” he said. “This is what I meant when I said you were going to have to be brave.”

Related Characters: Conor O’Malley (speaker), Conor’s Father (speaker), Conor’s Mother, Conor’s Grandmother
Page Number: 88
Explanation and Analysis:
The Second Tale Quotes

The yew tree is the most important of all the healing trees, it said. It lives for thousands of years. Its berries, its bark, its leaves, its sap, its pulp, its wood, they all thrum and burn and twist with life. It can cure almost any ailment man suffers from, mixed and treated by the right apothecary.

Related Characters: The Monster (speaker), Conor O’Malley, Conor’s Mother, The Parson, The Apothecary
Related Symbols: The Yew Tree
Page Number: 105
Explanation and Analysis:
Invisible Quotes

His classmates kept their distance from him, too, like he was giving off a bad smell. He tried to remember if he’d talked to any of them since he’d arrived this morning. He didn’t think he had. Which meant he hadn’t actually spoken to anyone since his father that morning.

How could something like that happen?

But, finally, here was Harry. And that, at least, felt normal.

Related Characters: Conor O’Malley, Conor’s Mother, Conor’s Grandmother, Conor’s Father, Harry, Anton, Sully
Page Number: 125
Explanation and Analysis:
Could It Be? Quotes

“Son,” his father said, leaning forward. “Stories don’t always have happy endings.”

This stopped him. Because they didn’t, did they? That’s one thing the monster had definitely taught him. Stories were wild, wild animals and went off in directions you couldn’t expect.

Related Characters: Conor’s Father (speaker), Conor O’Malley, The Monster, Conor’s Mother
Related Symbols: The Yew Tree
Page Number: 134
Explanation and Analysis:
The Third Tale Quotes

Harry leaned forward, his eyes flashing. “I see nothing,” he said. Without turning around, Conor asked the monster a question. “What did you do to help the invisible man?”

And he felt the monster’s voice again, like it was in his own head.

I made them see, it said.

Conor clenched his fists even tighter.

Then the monster leapt forward to make Harry see.

Related Characters: Conor O’Malley (speaker), The Monster (speaker), Harry (speaker), Conor’s Mother, Lily Andrews
Page Number: 152
Explanation and Analysis:
Punishment Quotes

He was going to be punished. It was finally going to happen. Everything was going to make sense again. She was going to expel him.

Punishment was coming.

Related Characters: Conor O’Malley, Conor’s Mother, Harry, Miss Kwan
Page Number: 157
Explanation and Analysis:
A Note Quotes

I’m sorry for telling everyone about your mum, read the first line.

I miss being your friend, read the second.

Are you okay? read the third.

I see you, read the fourth, with the I underlined about a hundred times.

Related Characters: Lily Andrews (speaker), Conor O’Malley, Conor’s Mother, Harry
Page Number: 162
Explanation and Analysis:
Life After Death Quotes

“I’ve known forever she wasn’t going to make it, almost from the beginning. She said she was getting better because that’s what I wanted to hear. And I believed her. Except I didn’t.”

No, the monster said.

Conor swallowed, still struggling. “And I started to think how much I wanted it to be over. How much I just wanted to stop having to think about it. How I couldn’t stand the waiting anymore. I couldn’t stand how alone it made me feel.”

Related Characters: Conor O’Malley (speaker), The Monster (speaker), Conor’s Mother
Page Number: 171
Explanation and Analysis:

He faintly felt the huge hands of the monster pick him up, forming a little nest to hold him. He was only vaguely aware of the leaves and branches twisting around him, softening and widening to let him lie back.

Related Characters: Conor O’Malley, The Monster, Conor’s Mother
Page Number: 190
Explanation and Analysis:

You were merely wishing for the end of pain, the monster said. Your own pain. An end to how it isolated you. It is the most human wish of all.

“I didn’t mean it,” Conor said.

You did, the monster said, but you also did not.

Conor sniffed and looked up to its face, which was as big as a wall in front of him. “How can both be true?”

Because humans are complicated beasts, the monster said. How can a queen be both a good witch and a bad witch? How can a prince be a murderer and a saviour?

Related Characters: Conor O’Malley (speaker), The Monster (speaker), Conor’s Mother, The Evil Queen, The Parson, The Young Prince, The Apothecary
Page Number: 191
Explanation and Analysis:
The Truth Quotes

And he also knew he was going to get through it.

It would be terrible. It would be beyond terrible.

But he’d survive.

And it was for this that the monster came. It must have been.

Conor had needed it, and his need had somehow called it. And it had come walking. Just for this moment.

Related Characters: Conor O’Malley, The Monster, Conor’s Mother
Page Number: 204
Explanation and Analysis:

“You’ll stay?” Conor whispered to the monster, barely able to speak. “You’ll stay until. . .”

I will stay, the monster said, its hands still on Conor’s shoulders. Now all you have to do is speak the truth.

And so Conor did.

He took in a breath.

And, at last, he spoke the final and total truth.

“I don’t want you to go,” he said, the tears dropping from his eyes, slowly at first, then spilling like a river.

Related Characters: Conor O’Malley (speaker), The Monster (speaker), Conor’s Mother
Related Symbols: The Yew Tree
Page Number: 204
Explanation and Analysis: