Tom's feelings of confusion suggest that his connection with Mrs. Lensky goes beyond romance; it touches on his existential desires. He senses that this relationship could change him in fundamental ways, yet he feels frustrated because of the barriers between them. Seemingly, no matter how much Tom yearns for connection, invisible but powerful forces always separate him from others. His inability to connect with Anna further emphasizes this notion, as he struggles to integrate himself into her life. Additionally, the presence of a wedding ring reminds him that Mrs. Lensky led an entirely different life before meeting him—a life he struggles to understand or even comprehend.