It’s not exactly clear what the “nameless, aching need” inside Paul actually
is, other than a general desire to lead a more fulfilling life. What that life would actually look like, though, is unknown. He hoped Finnerty would help him forget about this feeling, but Finnerty did the exact opposite: he validated Paul’s unhappiness. Instead of helping his friend forget about his woes, Finnerty tried to get Paul to see that his unhappiness in the corporate world is completely understandable. However, Paul isn’t ready to accept this, which is why he now hopes he won’t see Finnerty for a while. In other words, Finnerty struck a nerve in Paul, but Paul isn’t ready to admit that he doesn’t like his current life. As a result, he wants to distance himself from Finnerty.