Although Emily outwardly took to her new station in life, she never quite becomes the lady she had aspired to be. Her fits of depression presumably stem partly from guilt, but also, the novel suggests, from her awareness of the precariousness of her position. Littimer says that Steerforth's restlessness only deepened Emily's gloom, probably because she feared what would happen to her if Steerforth left her; as his mistress, Emily has no official standing in society. Steerforth's proposal that Emily marry Littimer is therefore "honorable," because it assures her a respectable life going forward. Clearly, however, the arrangement completely ignored Emily's feelings, treating her more like a piece of property than a person and unintentionally mocking her dreams of being upper-class.